At noon on Saturday, 24 February 2018, I played the funeral Mass of the 5-year-old in Elizabeth, NJ, who was taken too soon from this world by the flu. I braced myself for a painful, soul-wrenching experience as I watched the family and friends pour in, as I watched the tiny white casket wheeled down the nave, and yet, I left that church almost speechless... and not for the reasons that you would assume. I was amazed and encouraged by the strength of that family. Naturally, t